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Men Want To Be Him; Women Want To Be With Him: See Why

By Liss Brine

Andrew Tate. Image credit: Sky News

Andrew Tate figured out something about attraction that 99% of men never will.

And I’m going to break it all down in 10 pieces:


1. Tate lives by one rule: power attracts, weakness repels.

Most men suppress their masculinity to fit into a society that tells them to be softer, more accommodating, and less aggressive.

Tate does the opposite.

  •  He speaks with conviction—never hesitating, never apologizing for who he is.

  • He moves through life as if he’s already won—because confidence is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

  • He refuses to explain himself—because real men don’t ask for permission.

Women aren’t drawn to men who seek approval. They are drawn to men who command presence.

That’s why Tate doesn’t chase.

Women chase him.


2. He doesn’t play by society’s rules—he plays by reality’s rules

Most men are raised on lies about attraction:

❌ Be nice, and she’ll love you.

❌ Wait for the right girl, and she’ll find you.

❌ Just be yourself, and everything will work out.

Tate laughs at this delusion.

He knows that in the real world:

  • Women want excitement, status, and a man who makes them feel something.

  • The most desirable men don’t play fair—they create the game.

  • If you don’t control the frame, she will—and she will lose respect for you.

Tate doesn’t pretend the world is fair. He dominates the world as it is.


3. He lives in abundance—and women feel it

Most men crave validation from women.

They chase, they over-text, they try to “earn” her attention.

Tate? He never operates from scarcity.

  • He doesn’t need women—they need him.

  • He doesn’t chase—they chase him.

  • He doesn’t settle—they compete for his time.

That’s why women never get bored around him.

A man who acts like a prize will always be treated like one.


4. Tate triggers emotions other men can’t

Attraction isn’t logic—it’s emotional addiction.

Women don’t remember the guy who was always nice, always available, always predictable.

They remember the man who made them feel something real.

Tate is that man because he:

  • Creates highs and lows—so she never feels fully secure.

  • Shows dominance—so she knows she’s with a man who leads.

  • Holds his frame no matter what—so she never sees weakness.

When a woman feels the rush of uncertainty, she gets hooked.

That’s why she never forgets a man like Tate.


5. He is hated because he tells men the truth

The world doesn’t want men like Tate to exist.

Why? 

Because strong, independent, and masculine men can’t be controlled.

  • They don’t settle for mediocrity.

  • They don’t bow to weak ideologies.

  • They don’t let women walk all over them.

Tate became famous not just because women love him—but because men need him.

He exposed the truth about attraction, power, and success—and weak men couldn’t handle it.

That’s why they try to silence him, cancel him, and erase his message.

But the reality is simple:

Tate wins because Tate understands the game.

And the men who refuse to learn?

They will stay weak, confused, and forever ignored.


6. Women don’t just like Tate. They compete for him

Most men beg for attention. They send paragraphs. They double-text. They wait around, hoping she picks them.

Tate? He never gives a woman full security.

 He keeps his options open—which makes her feel replaceable.

  • He never over-explains—which makes her desperate to understand him.

  • He doesn’t chase—which forces her to chase harder.

Women don’t compete for a man who needs them.

They compete for a man who doesn’t need them at all.


7. He never apologizes for being masculine

Society tells men to tone it down. Be softer. Be more “understanding.”

Tate ignores all of it.

  • He embraces dominance—because women are wired to respect strength.

  • He controls his frame—because women secretly love men they can’t manipulate.

  • He moves with certainty—because nothing is more attractive than a man who knows what he wants.

Women don’t fall for men who submit to their emotions.

They fall for men who control their own reality.


8. He is feared by weak men and desired by strong women

Tate forces men to face uncomfortable truths.

  • Women don’t want equality in attraction—they want polarity.

  • A woman won’t choose the best provider—she’ll choose the man who makes her feel something.

  • If you don’t learn the rules, you will always lose to men who do.

That’s why low-value men hate Tate—because he reminds them of how weak they are.

And that’s why high-value women chase him—because they can’t resist a man who understands their psychology better than they do.


9. He gets away with what other men can’t

Most men would get destroyed if they tried to act like Tate.

They’d get ghosted. Dumped. Laughed at.

Why? Because dominance without value is just arrogance.

Tate has:

  • Status—women crave men who others admire.

  • Power—he controls his time, money, and choices.

  • Proof—women see other women desire him, which makes them want him more.

A man with nothing to back up his confidence is just delusional.

Tate wins because his mindset matches his reality.

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10. The reason Tate will always have women? 

He understands the game.

Most men try to impress women.

Tate makes women try to impress him.

  • He never chases—he lets them come to him.

  • He never over-invests—he makes them earn his attention.

  • He never explains himself—he knows mystery is attraction.

Women don’t want a man they can fully figure out.

They want a man who keeps them guessing, competing, and craving more.

That’s why Tate never struggles with women.

He understands them better than they understand themselves.

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