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My findings show that what kills most beautiful romantic and career relationships is pride. And, this pride is clearly a product of a stupid mindset.

So, it's not difficult for anyone to wean him/herself of such a mindset. Why? It's because all you need to jettison such a stupid mindset is to realise how absolutely foolish you are in not only having but also harboring it.

Here’s The Deal…

The best relationships are where you build me up while I also build you up. So, it requires two parties who know they are not perfect but want to get better. Think 🤔 about this for a while…

We all agree that “no one is perfect”; don't we? But, in the actual living experience, many of us find it difficult to acknowledge our imperfections. We somehow think it is dishonourable and shameful to admit what everyone already knows, namely, that “I AM NOT PERFECT AND WILL NEVER BE”🤣😭

Thus, we find it difficult to say “sorry” genuinely when we know we are at fault. Also, we find it difficult to say “thank you” genuinely when we know that the other party has added some value to our lives. If we can have everyone realize and respond to this, this world could become a realized El Dorado.

Therefore, the only way to be right (and therefore righteous), is NOT to insist that I AM ALWAYS RIGHT, which is a well-known lie, but to fully agree that I am a #projectinprogress...

So, once you realize TRULY that you are a project in progress, you are ready for a successful relationship where someone else will help to build you up higher. But, before you jump in, try to ascertain two important points:

Are you truly ready to help in building up the other party too?
Does the other party truly acknowledge that he/she is also NOT PERFECT and therefore ready to accept and acknowledge the relationship as an occasion of #mutualbuildingup?

Discuss this with them to find out what they think. To make it easier, simply share this article with them and ask for an opportunity to discuss its content with them.

Once you are ready to build up the other person and the other person is read to be built up and build you up....

, go into the relationship and let the mutual building up - nay, the relationship - start and continue.

And This Is Even A Theory That I'm Propanding📚

What I've just shared with you is what I prefer to call 'The Theory Of Mutual Building Up' or 'The Theory Of A Project In Progress'. It is you who have the honor and opportunity to put this theory into practice.

If you have any issue with this, share it in the comment section. I'll be there to respond to you.

And please, if this makes any sense to you, DON'T BE SELFISH with it. Instead, click here to share this with the hashtags #projectinprogress and/or #mutualbuiodingup. Otherwise, locate the ‘SHARE’ button at the foot of this article. Do this and you could be helping to save a million relationships in the present and in future. Thus, you'd be helping our world to get better.

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