Garden Boy Impregnates Three Biological Sisters: Matters Arising

“The Kenyan parents kept their daughters indoors and could not allow them to mingle with friends. The garden boy was the only close friend they knew. Without their strict parents knowing, he started sleeping with them until he got all of them pregnant,” Obiss Foundation reported on Facebook yesterday.

“The Christian parents were shocked that their daughters were pregnant despite being strict on them. But when they inquired who was responsible, their honest response caused the mother to faint”.

The report further says that the garden boy started sleeping with the second daughter. They were caught by the first daughter who struck a deal with her sister: “Let him sleep with me too and I will keep yours a secret”.

 As time went on, the report says, the last daughter “also saw what was happening and demanded to also sleep with the garden boy if she had to keep the secret. In the end, all the three sisters got pregnant by the same man”. 

“The sisters have since given birth and (their) parents have accepted the fate after intense counseling and blamed themselves for being too strict towards their daughters. The garden boy instantly lost his job but the girls still send him money and love him,” the Obliss Foundation report further reveals.

Dear Present And Future Parents! Gather Here And Let's Discuss The Matters Arising From This Story🌟⭐🌟⭐

The garden boy is now the father to the first kids (2 daughters and a son according to the report) of the 3 daughters of this one family. “This is how life treats people who are tough and strict towards girl children,” the Obliss Foundation report appears to remonstrate.

What's your thought on this story? Kindly share as a comment below 👇 👇 👇. We and other parents reading this will appreciate your PERSONAL THOUGHTFUL view on the matter. 

For example, should we be strict on girl children or should we be liberal? We all know that being liberal can give the child room to get negative influences from the corrupt society; don't we?

Now, we have seen that being strict too can be dangerous ⚡. So, what exactly should parents of girl children do in these respects? Someone is likely to say, “just be moderate?” but just how much of strictness and freedom should be mixed to get the right result? 

Also, the story says the three girls still love the garden boy so much that they still send him money. This is not surprising considering that there are a few possible explanations for why some individuals (especially girls) might experience strong emotional attachment or bonding with their first sexual partner according to Meta AI:

1. Attachment Theory: The first sexual experience can trigger attachment feelings due to the release of oxytocin, often called the "cuddle hormone," which promotes bonding.

2. Emotional Vulnerability: First sexual experiences can be emotionally intense, making individuals more vulnerable to attachment.

3. Memory and Nostalgia: First experiences can be memorable, leading to nostalgic feelings and emotional connection.

4. Psychological Imprinting: Some research suggests that early experiences, including sexual ones, can shape future preferences and attachments.

5. Social and Cultural Factors: Societal pressures, cultural norms, or personal beliefs might influence attachment to the first sexual partner.

The question now is: In a situation like this where three biological sisters don't only bear a child each for one man but also have strong emotional attachment to him, how can we solve the romantic gridlock that results? One major difficulty here is that the three sisters can't all get married to one man according to the prevailing culture in Africa. And, it's not likely that any of the ladies can easily do away with the resulting emotional attachment.

Again, kindly share your view below 👇.

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AND DON'T MISS THIS👉 In a related development, an Awake Digest writer recently identified that poverty is a major factor that makes girl children fall into the hands of predator men. According to him, the men entice the girl kids with money unknown to their struggling parents.

The question is: How can families solve this nagging problem of poverty once and for all? In answer to this question, we recently wrote on the easiest way we know for families to overcome the negative indices of the Nigerian economy.

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